This is a collection of "stupid things" exwives have done according to stepmoms...
~Ours actually refers to herself as a princess
~Telling my husband that it's illegal for me to answer the phone. In my house. Where I live.
~Told my husband that we should "buy her an apartment" because we "make good money".
~ Over Memorial Day weekend she called the cops on my husband because he supposedly kept my stepson on her time, but she was the one who made the agreement that the custodial parent who had stepson on holidays would take
him to school the next day.
~Told my husband that my stepson was not allowed to hug me. He was 1 year old.
~She will call his daddy at least ten times a day when she has him and anytime he
doesn't answer on the first ring she tells my stepson that daddy doesn't love
him enough to answer the phone....
~Years ago when my boyfriend and I first started dating he mentioned to his ex-wife that
he was going to marry me one day and she said she will kill us both
first.
~When my husband and I started dating, his ex-wife offered to have a threesome with us.
~Over the years, many things were said and done that are just
unbelievable. What is so incredible is, she didn't want him, she cheated
on him, she kicked him out and she has been married a couple of times
since they divorced but she is still pissed that he did not go back to
her, tail between his legs (even though she really didn't want him).
~When I became pregnant with our child, when she finally found out
about it she called my husband and said, "I guess this means there really is no
chance for us."
As you can see, there are some stupid ex-wives out there! Or maybe crazy is the more appropriate word. It's clear that there are a lot of "women" out there having babies who might not be ready to even handle life on their own. If you are a man or if you have a son, it's wise to educate ourselves or our children on these kind of people. They are EVERYWHERE! Do not get sucked into a relationship with a future stupid ex-wife, and for God's sake...wear a condom!
- She said she wants to file a court motion because her son took a nap at our house and it threw off his "schedule".
ReplyDeleteHere's a few to add to your list:
ReplyDelete- My husband's ex wife refuses to allow her son to keep clothes at our house because it will make him feel 'conflicted'
- She wanted my husband to sign an agreement restricting him from travelling domestically with his son without her written approval, and banning him from travelling internationally. The agreement also stated that she could travel wherever in the world she chooses to with the child with no notice needed. When my husband emailed back "I've been advised not to sign the agreement" she asked, "What is in there that you could possibly disagree with?"
- My husband put his sick son in our bed with him because he was sick and had a fever, and our room is cooler and has a ceiling fan. I moved to my stepson's room for the night. The day after we took him back to his mother, she rang to tell my husband what he did was disgusting. He asked why. She said, "You DO THINGS in that bed." (Oh, did I mention she's also a fundamentalist Christian? Who was pregnant on her wedding day of course.)
Coming in late to the game, here...
ReplyDelete- Has history of physical abuse, emotional abuse and emotional instability, then attacks my partner and starts telling everyone he choked her;
- Files for a DVO listing conditions that completely block access to the child (don't go to her house, don't approach day care, don't approach if we see them in public);
- Insists that the only way for my partner to see child is to...go to her house...(DVO? What DVO?);
- Gets angry when partner files a cross application for a DVO;
- Tells me I'm not allowed to brush child's hair, hug child, sleep in my own bed when child is visiting, or enforce child's boundaries (because rejection from someone child cares about is 'what's best for child');
- Teaches child that even though I live with her dad, even though child is comfortable and happy around me, and even though child calls for me when I'm not around, I am a 'stranger' in the 'stranger danger' lesson (I hear teaching kids that friends are strangers and that their dad's house is unsafe is a one-way ticket to mother of the year);
- Tells me that she will have the court order me to move out of my house;
- Tells me that she will have the court order me to not communicate with my partner about their child;
- Undoes child's visiting routine of two years, then says she won't let child stay with her dad mid-week because 'it upsets her routine'.
- Wants phone calls every day that child is visiting, uses said phone calls to interrogate child, then gets upset with child's answers;
- Can't understand why we stopped allowing nightly phone calls;
- Can't understand why we have stopped communicating with her al together.
Ex-wives, eh? Who even knew?