Preventing Phone Contact

Another thing stupid ex-wives are famous for is preventing phone contact between the non-custodial father and the kids. If he calls on the house phone, he will try stupid ex-wife's cell phone. If that doesn't work, he will eventually splurge on a cell phone for the child(ren). Of course stupid ex-wife knows EXACTLY what to do with that...take it..."charge" it...use it...everything EXCEPT leave it in the hands of said child(ren) so that Daddy can call!

Why is this stupid? Well, first off, there is now record from Daddy's phone AND the child's phone of every call that went unanswered while the child was with Mom. If a non-custodial father goes to the point of purchasing a cell phone, give it up! You don't have a "deadbeat Dad" or "loser" on your hands like you would like your friends/family to believe. You have a dad who wants to remain in contact with his kids, which he has every right to do!

Secondly, if your child is old enough to talk on the phone, s/he is old enough to witness what you are doing. And YOU are the bad guy here. You will never win that one, and s/he will ALWAYS see you as the bad guy for keeping Daddy away. And no matter what your child says to your face, they may hate your guts for doing these things and one day they will make sure you pay!

Withholding Parenting Time

One of THE STUPIDEST things a Stupid Ex-wife can do is withhold the father's parenting time. Whether she does this by making false claims and accusations in the court system or she goes against a court order, it is SO STUPID!

Why? There is no harder job than being a single mom. There is no one coming home after work to help out or take over. There is no one to make dinner. Ever. When you have your kids full time, it wears you down. You NEED those breaks! When a Stupid Ex-wife is so controlling and out to punish the father that she sabotages her own mental health, it only makes her a bitchier mom and produces unhappy kids. Not to mention that the kids grow up to see Daddy in a positive light because Daddy is well-rested and happy to take them whenever he can!

A smart ex-wife is happy and excited about her kids getting to spend time with Daddy because she gets some time to herself to regroup and rest, and the kids are happier because they are spending time with Daddy. Duh!

For Our Kids,
Smart One

Hostile-Aggressive Parenting

Many of the things posted in this blog will be acts of hostile-aggressive parenting, which leads to parental alienation. So it's important that I post exactly what hostile-aggressive parenting is. I actually came across the term online, completely by accident. But as I read the typical behaviors of hostile-aggressive parents, I could not believe how many of them applied to Stupid Ex-wife. It was UNREAL. So, now we knew what she was doing, and we had a clue as to why. It does not make it much easier to watch a parent do these things to her children. All I can say is document, document, document...

Here is a great website on Hostile-Aggressive Parenting